{"id":2684,"date":"2014-08-21T12:11:15","date_gmt":"2014-08-21T10:11:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/warriorshepherd.com\/blog\/?p=2684"},"modified":"2014-08-21T12:11:15","modified_gmt":"2014-08-21T10:11:15","slug":"3-ways-parents-can-help-their-kids-get-a-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/warriorshepherd.com\/blog\/3-ways-parents-can-help-their-kids-get-a-job\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Ways Parents Can Help Their Kids Get a Job"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve gone from a decorated Major in the United States Air Force, to an international non-profit Director, to&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; high-school Math teacher.  And I&#8217;m okay with it.  <\/p>\n<p>This September I&#8217;ve been hired as a part time Math and Physics teacher in a secondary school.  The schedule fits well alongside my work with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.global-adventure.org\">Global Adventure<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.g42global.org\">G42<\/a> and allows me to teach and mentor young people while bringing home a paycheck.  The story how I got this job is a good one&#8230; it&#8217;s something I&#8217;ve learned from, and I think it&#8217;s something parents can learn from.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In essence, my parents got me this job.<\/strong>  And they didn&#8217;t talk to anyone, call in any favors, or even step foot in the UK.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/warriorshepherd.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/parents_jobs1.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"parents_jobs\" width=\"590\" height=\"280\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2688\" srcset=\"http:\/\/warriorshepherd.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/parents_jobs1.jpg 590w, http:\/\/warriorshepherd.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/parents_jobs1-300x142.jpg 300w, http:\/\/warriorshepherd.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/parents_jobs1-136x65.jpg 136w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 590px) 100vw, 590px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>With the economy as bad as it is, finding a job is hard.  I know&#8230; for three months, I scoured the web, asked friends, sent in applications, and after not having success anywhere, I began to understand how soul-crushing it is to hear &#8220;no&#8221; day after day.  I have to admit my criteria were pretty high. I needed to make enough to help support a family of five, I had to have a flexible schedule so I could still teach at G42 every so often and take off days to run Global Adventure events.<\/p>\n<p>So that&#8217;s how I became a substitute teacher. (or in the UK, a &#8220;supply teacher&#8221;)  With my degrees and 5+ years of teaching experience, I could step and be an &#8220;unqualified cover supervisor&#8221; at schools, and earn a good daily wage.  Obviously, I only got paid if I worked, but soon found out that I could work most days.<\/p>\n<p>At the first long-term cover job I got, the school administrators quickly noticed me and began to ask me if I had other work.  My two-week job turned into the-rest-of-the-school-year job&#8230; and that eventually became an offer of permanent employment for the 2014-2015 school year.  <\/p>\n<p>I wondered to myself, what made the leaders of the school offer me longer-term employment so quickly?  My dashing good looks?  My outgoing, life-of-the-party demeanor?  Maybe, (<em>or maybe not&#8230;<\/em>) but once I got to thinking about it, here was what they seemed to bring up in conversation most often.<br \/>\n&#8211; My use of &#8220;Yes, sir,&#8221; and &#8220;Yes, ma&#8217;am&#8221; when I spoke to them<br \/>\n&#8211; The fact that I didn&#8217;t complain and worked harder than most supply teachers<br \/>\n&#8211; The kids liked me, and the teachers that I covered liked me<\/p>\n<p>The fact is, each one of these traits can be traced back to what my parents taught me growing up.  And I thought these could be invaluable lessons for any parents who would like their kids to one day find a job&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>Teach Your Kids Respect<\/h2>\n<p>My dad taught me to say &#8216;yes sir&#8217; and &#8216;yes ma&#8217;am&#8217; at an early age.  It obviously was a requirement in the military, but this &#8220;old-fashioned&#8221; respect has opened a lot of doors and helped me stand out in an culture where grunts are more common than complete sentences.<\/p>\n<h2>Teach Your Kids How To Work Hard<\/h2>\n<p>Self-explanatory.  But I think what stood out was the fact that I wouldn&#8217;t stand around in the staff lounge and complain all day long, which seems to be a large part of teacher conversations.  It&#8217;s annoying, depressing, and turns into a vicious cycle of angst.<\/p>\n<h2>Teach Your Kids to Leave Every Place Better<\/h2>\n<p>One classroom that I taught in was a mess.  Old papers everywhere, posters hanging off the wall, and rubbish stuffed into any drawer.  I spent my break time and after class throwing out most of the stuff and generally cleaning the room.  The kids noticed (and I think they work better in a more tidy space), the department head noticed, and the teacher noticed when they returned.  Be someone who is bringing life, who is helping people, who improves a situation, and who makes a mark on the places they go! <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In essence, my parents got me my job.  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